Thursday (5 June) may be the last official day of Child Protection Week but Stellenbosch police are clear that child safety is a 365 day effort.
Local police are sharing the following tips with parents, guardians and the larger community.
Personal safety: Use proper names for body parts as this helps children communicate clearly if something untoward happens like bullying or abuse. Explain “safe” versus “unsafe” touches, and teach children that their bodies belong to them and they have the right to say “no” when they are uncomfortable. Private parts are private – explain that certain areas are private and should not be touched by others except for hygiene or medical reasons, and only with permission.
Online safety: Supervise your child’s internet use. Use parental controls and keep electronic devices in common areas where you can keep an eye on them. Discuss online dangers by teaching them about cyberbullying, online predators and that they should never share personal information. Set clear rules about what they can do, where they can go and who they can talk to online.
Know their environment: Monitor adults in your child’s life. Make sure you know who spends time with them, like their teachers, coaches, neighbours, and so forth. Avoid isolated situations were your child may be one-on-one with adults and encourage group settings whenever possible. Visit and inspect locations before sending your child for playdates, sleepovers or camps.
Emergency preparedness: Teach your child their full name, address and phone number. Have a family password, a code word that must be used by anyone picking them up unexpectedly. Practice what to do if they get lost and help them identify safe adults like police officers and store clerks who can help them.
Encourage open communication: Create a safe space and let your child know they can talk to you about anything. Listen without judgment, believe them and remain calm if they share something concerning. Regularly check-in by asking about their day, feelings and any unusual behaviour they noticed.
Children (and adults) who need help in an emergency can call the police on 10111.
